Do you see yourself as others see you?
By Dr. Charles Vine
When do you feel your best?
In the morning
During the afternoon and early evening
Late at night
Do you usually walk ..
fairly fast, with long steps?
fairly fast, with short quick steps
less fast, head up, looking the world in the face
less fast, head down
very slowly
When talking to people, do you...
stand with your arms folded
have your hands clasped
have one or both hands on you hips
touch or push the person to whom you're talking
play with your ear, touching your chin or smooth your hair
When relaxing, do you sit with.....
your knees bent and your legs neatly side by side
your legs crossed
your legs stretched out or straight
with one leg curled under you
When something really amuses you, how do you react...
a big, appreciative laugh
a laugh, but not a loud one
a quiet chuckle
a big smile
a slow smile
When you go to a party or social gathering, you will...
make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
make a quieter entrance, looking around quickly for someone you know
make the quietest possible entrance and try to stay unnoticed
You're working hard, concentrating hard. You're interrupted, you'll...
welcome the break
feel extremely irritated
vary between these two extremes
Which of the following colors do you like most?
red or orange
black
yellow or light blue
green
dark blue or purple
white
brown, gray or violet
When you're in bed at night in those last few moments before going to sleep, you'll lie....
stretched out on you back
stretched out face down on your stomach
on your side, slightly curlede
with your head on one arm
with your head under the covers
Do you often dream that you are.....
falling
fighting or struggling
searching for someone or something
flying or floating
or do you usually have a dreamless sleep
or do you have pleasant dreams
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Scores:
Question
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
A 2 6 4 4 6 6 6 6 7 4
B 4 4 2 6 4 4 2 7 6 2
C 6 7 5 2 3 2 4 5 4 3
D 2 7 1 5 4 2 5
E 1 6 2 3 1 6
F 2 1
G 1
Interperation of Scores:
Under 21 points
People think you're shy, nervous and indecisive, someone who needs to be looked after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything. they see you as a worrier, who sees problems that don't exist. Some people thik you're boring. Only the people who know you well know that you aren't. The trouble is that you don't let very many people to get close to you.
FROM 21 TO 30 POINTS:
Your friends see you as painstaking, perhaps a little too fussy at times. They see you as very very cautious and extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment. They expect you to examine everything carefully form every side and then, usually, decide against it. They think this reaction on your part is caused partly by your careful nature and partly by laziness.
FROM 31 TO 40 POINTS:
Other people see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or too easily, but someone who is extremely loyal to the friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realixe that it takes a lot ot shake your trust in your friends, but, equally, that it takes you a long time to get over if if that trust is shaken
FROM 41 TO 50 POINTS:
Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing and always interesting, someone who is constantly the centre of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to your head. They see you as also as kind, considerate and understanding, someone who will cheer them up or help them out.
FROM 51 TO 60 POINTS:
Your friends see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, quick to make decisions (though not always the right ones). They see you as bold and venturesome, someone who will try anything-well, almost everything-once: someone who takes a chance and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.
OVER 60 POINTS:
Others see you as someone they should "handle with care". You are seen as vain, self-centered, and extremely dominant. Others may admire you and wish they could be more like you, but they don't always trust you and hesitate to become too deeply involved with you
