Do you see yourself as others see you

**nosnos** · 2009-12-18, 05:01 PM

Do you see yourself as others see you?

By Dr. Charles Vine

When do you feel your best?

In the morning

During the afternoon and early evening

Late at night

Do you usually walk ..

fairly fast, with long steps?

fairly fast, with short quick steps

less fast, head up, looking the world in the face

less fast, head down

very slowly

When talking to people, do you...

stand with your arms folded

have your hands clasped

have one or both hands on you hips

touch or push the person to whom you're talking

play with your ear, touching your chin or smooth your hair

When relaxing, do you sit with.....

your knees bent and your legs neatly side by side

your legs crossed

your legs stretched out or straight

with one leg curled under you

When something really amuses you, how do you react...

a big, appreciative laugh

a laugh, but not a loud one

a quiet chuckle

a big smile

a slow smile

When you go to a party or social gathering, you will...

make a loud entrance so everyone notices you

make a quieter entrance, looking around quickly for someone you know

make the quietest possible entrance and try to stay unnoticed

You're working hard, concentrating hard. You're interrupted, you'll...

welcome the break

feel extremely irritated

vary between these two extremes

Which of the following colors do you like most?

red or orange

black

yellow or light blue

green

dark blue or purple

white

brown, gray or violet

When you're in bed at night in those last few moments before going to sleep, you'll lie....

stretched out on you back

stretched out face down on your stomach

on your side, slightly curlede

with your head on one arm

with your head under the covers

Do you often dream that you are.....

falling

fighting or struggling

searching for someone or something

flying or floating

or do you usually have a dreamless sleep

or do you have pleasant dreams

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Scores:

Question

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
A 2 6 4 4 6 6 6 6 7 4
B 4 4 2 6 4 4 2 7 6 2
C 6 7 5 2 3 2 4 5 4 3
D 2 7 1 5 4 2 5
E 1 6 2 3 1 6
F 2 1
G 1

Interperation of Scores:

Under 21 points

People think you're shy, nervous and indecisive, someone who needs to be looked after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything. they see you as a worrier, who sees problems that don't exist. Some people thik you're boring. Only the people who know you well know that you aren't. The trouble is that you don't let very many people to get close to you.

FROM 21 TO 30 POINTS:

Your friends see you as painstaking, perhaps a little too fussy at times. They see you as very very cautious and extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment. They expect you to examine everything carefully form every side and then, usually, decide against it. They think this reaction on your part is caused partly by your careful nature and partly by laziness.

FROM 31 TO 40 POINTS:

Other people see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or too easily, but someone who is extremely loyal to the friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realixe that it takes a lot ot shake your trust in your friends, but, equally, that it takes you a long time to get over if if that trust is shaken

FROM 41 TO 50 POINTS:

Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing and always interesting, someone who is constantly the centre of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to your head. They see you as also as kind, considerate and understanding, someone who will cheer them up or help them out.

FROM 51 TO 60 POINTS:

Your friends see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, quick to make decisions (though not always the right ones). They see you as bold and venturesome, someone who will try anything-well, almost everything-once: someone who takes a chance and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

OVER 60 POINTS:

Others see you as someone they should "handle with care". You are seen as vain, self-centered, and extremely dominant. Others may admire you and wish they could be more like you, but they don't always trust you and hesitate to become too deeply involved with you